Today I called my therapist. Which doesn’t seem like a big
deal, right? I should have said today I NEEDED
to call my therapist. Bad. I originally
started seeing her years ago when I was so overcome with grief that my skin
actually ached, everything annoyed me and even the tick. . .tick. . . tick… of
her office wall clock catapulted me over the edge during one session. She
helped me through it all and when I came out the other end, we were dear
friends. As a matter of fact, most
sessions we had in the past few years were more like business strategy meetings.
She has a talent for putting everything in perspective, her bull meter is
finely tuned and she loves me. Perfect!
Skin aching, stomach twisting, sadness oozing from every
pore, I punched in her number and when the message machine came on, I calmly
asked her to call me as soon as was convenient.
I hung up knowing I should have left her a more in-depth message. I should have shouted “PTSD has
me by the throat and I can’t shake the fucker off.”
I was sucked into a multi-faceted perfect storm. Phase one of the storm began a few weeks before
when Steven, my one and only brother, my dear friend and support system, who had
been vacationing in Virginia, blacked out, coughed up blood and was rushed to
the hospital. He was brought into the
ICU with a diagnosis of sepsis-- blood pressure so low it was barely
measurable. The next 48 hours was a
nightmare as we held our breath, waiting for him to turn the corner. The poor
fellow in the bed next to his, with eerily similar symptoms, did not. Thankfully my brother, who had been a marathon
runner and in great physical condition, did. He is a little worse for wear but definitely on
the mend.
The emotional twister then headed northeast, gathered speed
and hit hard. Phase Two: I, like
everyone else, watched in horrific real-time, the act of pure evil and cowardice
as two bombs exploded at the finish line of The Boston Marathon. I don’t have
to go into detail about the nightmare that followed. We've all seen it. Some of us were standing feet away, some
gorilla-glued to our televisions. In those couple of moments we all again
witnessed the fragility of life; how in a split-second we can experience the
highest of highs then the unfathomable lowest of lows.
I closed my eyes, tight.
Memories of twin buildings falling into their own footprints instantly flooded
back. Visuals that were painstakingly hidden and held hostage underneath boulders
of self-protection, escaped with rapid-fire speed. I opened my eyes at the exact second a man in
a wheelchair flashed on the screen. His legs were blown off and two men were
running, pushing him through the crowd.
Phase three nearly knocked me down. It was suddenly 2001 and
I was back in the ICU. I was one of ten people who surrounded the hospital
bed. Later, I would find out the others were surgeons, nurses, psychiatrists and a
social worker. It was up to me to tell the one person that I loved most in the
world, the one person who for so many years my main purpose in life was to keep
safe and out of harm’s way, that his strong left arm was no longer there. Only a
densely-wrapped bloody gauze remained.
I know, all too well, the shock, anguish and disbelief. I
know all too well the phantom pain that waits for these innocent victims. I am overwhelmed
with anger. Who are the monsters who plotted this destruction, mayhem, dismemberment and death?
When the photo of a sweet-faced teenager dominated the
networks, I was stunned. Monsters are
supposed to look like monsters! Not like a typical teenager who plays video
games in his filthy clothes-strewn bedroom! What could have happened to the kid
who people call “…sweet, polite, fun and full of life” that he would commit
such a heinous act? I don’t want to
wonder about that. With every fiber of
my body, I don’t want to agonize over what went terribly wrong with him! But I
do.
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